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I am sure you have met many types of people in this life. Some are good, evil, some even like to say the shortcomings of others.
Yes, many people are willing to spend their time on things that are not important, or even harm others. People like this are usually very dangerous if we are stuck or consumed by what they say.
Then, who is that person? He is a person who likes to spread, like or even mention the shortcomings of others. Sometimes, we are confused by people like this. Why? yes, we have to ask what is expected from his desire to say the shortcomings of others. If only he felt better than the others, wasn’t that someone else who had to be jealous of him. Or, maybe there is also someone who makes him jealous. why isn’t study the power of that person, so he also has the same opportunity as the person who makes him jealous.
Then, do you or we all want to be like that? Wait a minute! Maybe the suggestion from Imam Syafii can be a reflection for all of us.
“Don’t let your tongue say the shortcomings of others. Because you also have shortcomings and others have tongues”, (Imam Shafi’i).
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An advice that encourages us to resist or hold our tongue to mention the shortcomings of others. Really! If we continue to question the shortcomings, of course everyone must have a shortage. If there is someone who considers himself more perfect than most people, isn’t this one of the characteristics of Pharaoh who even dares to consider himself as God.
Try to begin to introspect ourselves from things that lead to mentioning the shortcomings of others. Because if we continue to question it, there is a fear that there will be no settlement. like the advice of Imam Shafi’i above, each has a tongue, how long we wantaccusing each other?
Everyone has their own shortcomings and strengths. It will be very beautiful if we cover each other’s shortcomings with the advantages we have. Start now! we take care of our oral things that will hurt or even harm others and ourselves.
You can also find the same post on my Steemit blog @ayuramona (affanhusaini). Regards..